About The Nurture Nest

A relational approach to development, identity, and the environments we create for children.

The Nurture Nest grew from years of sitting alongside children, families, and educators in moments of complexity, moments when behavior felt confusing, diagnosis felt heavy, or expectations felt misaligned with a child’s lived experience.

Over time, my work became less about managing behavior and more about examining how meaning is constructed around development and individual differences. I became increasingly interested in how adult interpretation shapes response, and how response shapes identity not only in the adult, but in the child.

That inquiry continues to guide my practice today

My doctoral research examined how parents reconcile expectations with lived reality when their child’s development unfolds differently than anticipated. I explored how perception shifts, how meaning is reconstructed, and how those internal adjustments shape the relational space a child grows within.

That work clarified something essential for me: the way adults understand a child profoundly shapes that child’s experience of themselves and their relationships.

The Nurture Nest exists to honor individual differences, strengthen adult understanding, and protect children’s developing sense of self.

Development is relational.
Understanding changes outcomes.

Dr. Ashley Gordon, PhD, CCLS

Early Childhood Development Specialist
University Instructor
Developmental Consultant